FOLLOWING

YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO CHANGE THE DIRECTION OF THE WIND, BUT BY FREQUENTLY ADJUSTING YOUR SAILS, YOU CAN ARRIVE AT YOUR DESTINATION.

THOSE WHO WOULD BE LOVED MUST BECOME THE IMAGINED LOVER OF THEIR BELOVED. IN MATTERS OF PRINCIPLE, STAND FIRM; IN MATTERS OF STYLE AND TASTE, SWIM WITH THE CURRENT.

IN THE AFFAIRS OF HUMANITY, CHANGE IS CONSTANT, AND OLD IDEAS ARE CONTINUALLY DISCARDED IN FAVOR OF NEW ONES. ONLY BY BEING ADAPTABLE TO THE DEMANDS OF THE TIME; ONLY BY ADJUSTING TO CHANGING CIRCUMSTANCES CAN ONE PROSPER IN OUR WORLD.
REMAIN FLEXIBLE, AND YOU WILL GAIN THE CONFIDENCE OF THOSE AROUND YOU. BEND AND YOU WILL NOT BREAK.

RELATIONSHIPS

LIFE IS A RELATIONSHIP GAME - NO MATTER HOW WELL YOU EXPRESS YOURSELF, YOU WON'T GET WHAT YOU WANT UNLESS YOU TUNE INTO THE FEELINGS AND DESIRES OF OTHER PEOPLE.

OUR CONSTANT CHALLENGE IS TO DO AND SAY THE RIGHT THINGS AT THE RIGHT TIME.

THE SAYING " TIMING IS EVERYTHING " IS ESPECIALLY TRUE WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS. IF YOUR SENSE OF TIMING IS GOOD, YOU CAN MAKE STRONG POSITIVE IMPRESSIONS AND COMMUNICATE SUCCESSFULY.

HUMILITY

HUMILITY IS A POSITIVE AND DECEPTIVELY POWERFUL ATTRIBUTE.

IF YOU ARE IN A HIGH POSITION BUT ARE STILL HUMBLE, PEOPLE WILL BE DRAWN TO YOU AND THE CAUSES YOU ESPOUSE.
IF YOUR POSITION IS LOWLY, HUMILITY WILL ENDEAR YOU TO THOSE OF HIGHER STATUS.

TRUE HUMILITY IS A VIRTUE TO WHICH ALL SHOULD ASPIRE.

HUMILITY IS THE VIRTUE WHICH ALLOWS YOU TO PERCEIVE THE BALANCING FORCE IN EACH SITUATION.

IT IS THE WAY OF THE WORLD TO FILL THE EMPTY CUP.

TOGETHER

WORKING TOGETHER BRINGS SUCCESS.

BUT HIGH - LEVEL TEAMWORK IS ACHIEVED ONLY WHEN A CLEAR GOAL IS SHARED BY THE RIGHT PLAYERS ON THE RIGHT TEAM AT THE RIGHT TIME.

ALL SUCCESSFUL TEAMS HAVE A SHARED VISION AND A LEADER.

ACCEPT THE STRUCTURE OF THE TEAM IF YOU WISH TO RECEIVE IT'S BENEFITS - OTHERWISE GO OFF ON YOUR OWN.

BE WILLING TO SUBORDINATE YOUR PERSONAL DESIRES FOR THE GOOD OF THE GROUP.

FREEDOM

FREEDOM IS HIGH RESPONSABILITYS IN YOUR DUTYS.

CHANGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR POSSESSIONS MAYBE

IN ORDER. IT'S REALLY NOT ABOUT HAVING MORE; IT'S ABOUT

TEACHING YOURSELF TO WANT LESS.

WAITING IS AN ESSENTIAL SKILL; PATIENCE IS A POWERFUL

FORCE. PRATICE PATIENCE.

LIMITS and CONNECTIONS

CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES CAREFULLY OR YOU MAY WASTE PRECIOUS TIME AND ENERGY ON SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER.

LIMITS ARE NECESSARY TO GIVE PURPOSE AND DIRECTION TO LIFE.

POINT YOURSELF TOWARD A MIDDLE WAY, THE MEAN BETWEEN DISCIPLINE AND FREEDOM OF SPIRIT.

BE TRUE

I DON'T HAVE (THE) MONEY...

I DON'T HAVE (THE) TIME...

I'M SCARED...

I DON'T DON'T WANT TO BE BURNED AGAIN...

THIS IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE..

FAMILY (microcosm)

THE FUNCIONAL FAMILY IS A TEAM WHICH SYMBOLIZES THE IDEAL OF HUMAN INTERDEPENDENCE, AND HAS LONG PROVIDED A FIRM FOUNDATION FOR SOCIETY.


THE HEALTHY FAMILY IS A MICROCOSM OF SOCIETY AND NATIVE SOIL IN WHICH ETHICAL VALUES TAKE ROOT AND GROW.



FERTILIZE THIS SOIL, AND THE WHOLE OF SOCIETY BENEFITS.

Fabuloso e Arrepiante !!! Gente da minha terra - Mariza

FROM PORTUGAL.

DADA and SURREALISM

THE EXPRESSION OF A REVOLT AGAINST WESTERN CIVILIZATION AND CULTURE.

LOVE and LIGHT

THERE ARE NO RULES...

SO HARD

YOU MAY SOMEWHAT UNCERTAIN ABOUT WHICH WAY TO TURN YOUR LIFE, FOR YOUR DREAMS SEEM REAL BUT UNATTAINABLE, YOU COULD EVEN TALK YOURSELF INTO A MILD DEPRESSION AS YOU ADD UP ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT, YET DO NOT HAVE IN YOUR PRESENT LIFE. DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF OR OTHERS NOW; BEING REALISTIC IS IMPORTANT BUT PESSIMISM AT THIS TIME SERVES NO PURPOSE AT ALL.

ATTITUDE

YOU WANT TO BE LIGHT AND EASY WHEN IT COMES TO A DEPRESSION. BUT THERE'S TOO MUCH AT STAKE TO JUST LET IT GO.
IT'S NOT ABOUT DEPRESSION, THOUGH; THE DEEPER ISSUE RAISES CONCERNS ABOUT WHO IS IN CONTROL. IT'S HARD TO MOVE ON UNTIL YOU'VE REESTABLISHED YOUR SENSE OF SECURITY.
BUT THE REAL STABILITY COMES FROM BEING FLEXIBLE IN YOUR ATTITUDE AND WILLING TO COMPROMISE.

DATING (fine specimen)

NO, YOU ARE GOOD LOOKING...AND LUCKY WITH THAT GAP IN YOUR TEETH, I PREFER CLEAN SHAVEN EVEN TO BLOKES THINK IT'S GREAT TO HAVE A 6 O'CLOCK SHADOW, COS IT MAKES THEM LOOK SEXY, IT CAN MAKE YOUR FACE QUITE SORE IF YOU'RE ON THE RECEIVING END OF IT ! I'VE JUST BEEN REPLYING TO 27yrs OLD WHO IS ADAMANT HE WANTS ME AS FRIEND. WHAT ARE THESE ppl ON ?? I'M OLD ENOUGH TO BE HIS MOTHER !
( from MYSTIC, 49 yrs old )

...POST DEVOTED TO 21st CENTURY RELATIONSHIP !

2WAYSBLOG

THIS IS A TWO WAYS BLOG, A FILM MAKING OFF AND A THERAPEUTIC BLOG.

PLEASE READ MY MIND, YOU CAN DO THAT. READ, LISTEN, WATCHING CAREFULY, ARTICLES, MUSIC AND VIDEOS.

YOU CAN FIND OUT MESSAGES ABOUT EMOTIONS, BEHAVIOUR, LOVE !

Keep in touch...

STILL RUNNING

A TRIBUTE TO THE ARTISTS

bob seger still the same 1978

80'S

Elkie Brooks - Pearl's A Singer

THE ROSE...

YARMOUTH DEPRESSING

LET'S TALKING ABOUT ART IN G.YARMOUTH.
IS THE MOST DEPRESSIVE AREA TO WORK PROFESSIONALY.
I KNOW, I'M NOT IN LONDON, LISBON, PARIS!
ART IS CULTURE, ART IS QUALITY OF LIFE, POSITIVE CONTRIBUTION, CHOICE AND CONTROL, HAPPINESS.
I FEEL MYSELF SAD, SOMETIMES ANGRY, DEPRESSIVE, ISOLATED, DISCRIMINATED.
THERE'S NO FEEDBACK!
NEEDS BIG VISIONS, BIG AIMS, HIGH QUALITY DECISIONS FROM LEADERS TO DEVELOP ARTS, PUTTING YARMOUTH ON... MAP.
THERE IS NO ART IN G. YARMOUTH, JUST SOME BRAVE ARTISTS. THE ART ORGANIZATIONS WORKING IN CIRCLES, NOT FOR PEOPLE, NOT FOR ARTISTS, NOT FOR ART.
PLEASE, PUTTING PEOPLE FIRST, GIVEN TO THE PEOPLE WHAT PEOPLE WANT.
PLEASE, ART IS LOVE, OPEN YOUR MIND, TRY, THERE'S A LOT TO EXPLORE.

AC/DC - Its A Long Way To The Top If Ya Wanna Rock And Roll

TO THE TOP

Neil Diamond - Coming to America

TO MIGRANTS.

Elvis Presley-Sweet Caroline(GREAT!GREAT!GREAT! Video)

THE KING

Janis Joplin - Cry Baby (live in toronto 1970)

THE DIVA

LOST

I AM A "POOR" FILM-MAKER; I'M MAKING A INDEPENDENT FILM ABOUT "EMOTIONAL ILLNESSES INTO THE COMMUNITYS".
I NEED SOME HELP TO DO THAT, HAVE SPOKEN TO SEVERAL ORGANIZATIONS IN G. YARMOUTH , THE FEEDBACK WAS:- WE'RE SORRY, HAVE NO SUPPORT FOR SINGLE PEOPLE!!
-THANKS!!
SO, I AM A SINGLE PERSON,
" " A SINGLE DAD,
" " A SINGLE PHOTOGRAPHER,
" " A SINGLE FILM-MAKER,
" " A SINGLE ARTIST.
THIS CALLS, ARTISTICAL DISCRIMINATION.
ART FOR ART'S SAKE!
AM I LOST??

ANGELS

DO YOU BELIEVE IN ANGELS? GOD?

I BELIEVE IN ANGELS, BECAUSE YOU ARE AN ANGEL!

YOU ARE YOUR OWN GOD!

RECIPROCITY,

THINK...

NARCISSISM

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

ARE YOU A NARCISSISTIC?

YES or NOT?

WHY?

THINK and,

TELL ME ABOUT IT!

UPDATING

The film structure :

-SUBJECT: EMOTIONAL ILLNESSES INTO THE COMMUNITYS,

-DEPRESSION
-STYGMA
-ANXIETY
-ISOLATION.


-AIMS: BEHAVIOUR,

-CHOICE and CONTROL
-HEALTH and EMOTIONAL WELLBEING
-QUALITY OF LIFE
-MAKING A POSITIVE CONTRIBUTION
-FREEDOM FROM DISCRIMINATION
-ECONOMIC WELLBEING, and
-SELF-RESPECT
-PERSONAL DIGNITY .


-MESSAGE: LOVE,

-GIVE YOURSELVE THE BEST
-SELF-ESTIME
-THINK
- I believe, if you need to change, you have one single way: LOVE !
Please, putting love first.

Keep in touch...

BEHAVIOUR

IS THIS ANTI-SOCIAL BEHAVIOUR?

Cesaria Evora and Elfy - Saudade

The voice.

HAPPINESS

- FEEL HAPPY / TAKE CARE MY EMOTIONAL NEEDS / I AM HAPPY and SO ON / MY HAPPINESS ESSENTIALLY DEPENDS ON HOW YOU MAKE ME HAPPY / IT IS YOUR DUTY TO DO THAT / YF YOU ARE NOT MAKING ME HAPPY, YOU ARE ERRING, YOU ARE BREAKING THE RELATIONSHIP.
- WHAT IF SOMEBODY TAKES THIS ATTITUDE? - HAPPINESS is a TWO WAY STREET. MAKE YOU HAPPY and GIVE YOU a CHANCE TO MAKE ME HAPPY.

LOVE is...

LOVE, WHILE ALWAYS FORGIVING of IMPERFECTIONS and MISTAKES!

REAL IMPACT

- EMOTIONAL WELLBEING

- QUALITY of LIFE

- POSITIVE CONTRIBUTION

- CHOICE and CONTROL

- DISCRIMINATION

- ECONOMIC WELLBEING

- PERSONAL DIGNITY.

DO YOU THINK ABOUT IT?

ISOLATION...

Acto ou efeito de isolar; estado de pessoa isolada; isolamento; separar de outro; interromper ou dificultar a comunicacao de...!

ANXIETY...

Inquietacao de espirito; incerteza aflitiva; opressao; angustia; impaciencia; perturbado; desejoso.

STYGMA...

Marca infamante; verberar; censurar; condenar; dar de um objecto pontual, uma imagem tambem pontual.

DEPRESSION...

Acto ou efeito de deprimir; abatimento fisico, intelectual ou moral; enfraquecimento.

ODE TO SILENCE...

Ha' momentos silenciosos que podem ser tristes. Nao faz mal! Fazer do amargo, doce e' um bom principio para evitar-mos o desrespeito pela vida e por nos proprios. E' nestes momentos ( silenciosos e tristes ) de aprendizagem que cultivo o meu ser!

I'M GOD...

Eu sei, ninguem acredita! Aceito, porque havia eu de ser Deus? Afinal, sou so' um ser, como tu, e os DEUSES nao sao terrenos...!?
Acredito que tu, como eu, somos DEUSES, DEUSES, mesmos DEUSES, como aquele em que areditas.
Tenta por um dia ser Deus, um Deus exclusivo, so' para ti, e literalmente vais perceber que, os DEUSES sao terrenos, somos TU e EU!